Jest In Tyme Equine Straightness Training

Jest In Tyme Equine Straightness Training Back in 2017 I started looking for a method to train my horses so that I could eventually ride them. Product/Service

I found Marijke de Jong's Straightness Training Academy and since then, my horses and I have been on an absolutely incredible journey of discovery!

My Katie does this every morning when I first come into the barn. There is nothing better!
02/27/2026

My Katie does this every morning when I first come into the barn. There is nothing better!

Not every nicker means affection, and not every vocalisation is about us.

Horses nicker for many reasons. Anticipation of food, curiosity, herd contact, learned association, or social greeting. Context matters.

But when a horse consistently offers a low, soft nicker alongside relaxed posture, soft eyes, and an approach that is not driven or demanding, that is social recognition.

It is a communication offered within their species specific language. A way of saying, I know you. I have placed you. You belong in my awareness.

As always, we read the whole horse, not just the sound.

Recognition is built through repeated, safe experiences. And when it is genuine, it feels quiet.

02/27/2026

Your Hands Are Not Brakes - Your Seat Is. Here's What That Actually Means!

If your students are stopping their horses with their hands, they're doing it wrong and their horses are telling them that every single time they brace, root, or throw their head. The stop lives in the seat, not the fingers.

Here's how to teach it:
The seat is your most powerful aid and your student is sitting on the most sensitive part of the horse's back, directly over his center of gravity. The horse feels every shift, every brace, every collapse which means the seat can either block movement or invite it and most riders have no idea they're doing either one.

What a halt aid should look like:
It's not a pull... it's a sequence...
Exhale → drop the weight into the saddle → rotate the seat bones down and forward → plug into the horse's back → then the connection travels through the elbow to the hand to the rein.

The pressure the horse feels in his mouth is connected to the increased weight on his back. The halt comes from the whole body working together and not from two hands hauling backward on a snaffle.

Try this off the horse first:
Pull a chair up to a table. Sit tall, feet flat on the floor, both hands resting on the edge of the table. Now exhale, rotate your seat bones down and forward, and gently pull on the table edge as your seat gets heavier in the chair. Feel that? That's your halt aid. That's what your horse feels when you do it right. Run this exercise with your students before they ever get in the saddle and watch the lightbulb go on.

Why this matters:
A horse stopped with hands alone learns to brace against pressure, root against the bit, and ignore escalating rein contact. A horse stopped with a connected seat aid learns to listen to the lightest whisper from his rider's body. Teach the seat first and the hands will follow.

01/27/2026

In 2008, at a thoroughbred auction in Kentucky, a mare named R**t was labeled a failure.

Once bred for speed and promise, her racing career had ended almost before it began. A damaged leg, a shattered temperament, and a reputation for being dangerous made her worthless in the eyes of the industry. Her likely future was silent and final — another number in a slaughterhouse line.

But one man paused.

Steve, from Shiloh Horse Rescue in New Jersey, didn’t see a ruined animal. He saw fear. In the whites of her wide eyes, he recognized not aggression, but a plea. He bought her for almost nothing and brought her home.

No one could touch her.

She reared, spun, slammed herself against the walls of her stall when a human came close. Trainers called her untrainable. Volunteers left food from a distance and backed away. For an entire year, R**t lived alone in a paddock — a trembling, beautiful ghost who trusted nothing.

Then, in 2009, a quiet miracle began.

A fifteen-year-old boy named Noah arrived through a community service program. He was introverted, soft-spoken, and carried scars no one could see. Born with a heart defect, he had endured surgeries, hospital rooms, and a world that often felt too loud, too fast, too demanding.

Sue, the rescue’s founder, followed one rule: beginners worked with the easiest horses.

But Noah walked past them all.

He stopped at R**t’s paddock.

“I want to work with that one.”

Everyone warned him. She was dangerous. Unpredictable. Broken.

But Sue noticed something else — a stillness in Noah that mirrored the chaos inside the horse. Against her better judgment, she allowed it. Carefully. Supervised.

What happened next rewrote every training manual.

Noah didn’t bring ropes.
He didn’t bring treats.
He didn’t try to touch her.

Instead, he brought a book.

Every afternoon, he sat on an overturned bucket outside her fence and read aloud. History. Science. Homework. His voice was calm, steady, unhurried. He asked nothing of her. He simply existed in her space.

Days passed. Then weeks.

One afternoon, Noah looked up.

R**t was standing at the fence.

Her head was lowered.
Her ears were forward.
She was listening.

For the first time in years, she had approached a human by choice.

The next day, he brought a brush. He held it out without moving.

Hours passed.

By sunset, the bristles touched her shoulder.

An inch at a time, trust returned.

A halter without panic.
A few slow steps.
A quiet walk around the paddock.

Noah never forced her. He understood fragility — in her, and in himself.

The true turning point came on a freezing morning when R**t collapsed with colic.

Anyone else would have triggered panic. Violence. Injury.

They called Noah.

He didn’t run.

He walked into the stall, sat beside her in the straw, and began to speak softly. He rested one hand on her neck.

She trembled — but she didn’t thrash.

She let him stay.

As the vet worked, his voice anchored her. In that moment of shared vulnerability, the final wall dissolved.

Within a year, the horse once marked for death carried children on gentle trail rides. She became a teacher for nervous beginners. A healer.

Journalists called it “the boy who tamed the wild horse.”

Noah corrected them.

“I didn’t tame her,” he said.
“We just learned to speak the same language.
It’s a quiet language.
It’s mostly about listening.”

Noah grew up to become a professional horseman, specializing in rehabilitating traumatized animals. R**t lived out her days at Shiloh — peaceful, loved, her terror only a distant memory.

Their story is not about dominance.

It’s about patience.

It’s about what happens when someone refuses to leave.

Because trauma is not healed by force.
It is healed by presence.

By someone saying, again and again, without words:
“I am not afraid of your damage.
I will stay.”

Sometimes the greatest rehabilitation doesn’t begin with a plan.

It begins with a person simply choosing not to walk away.

What would happen if we all chose to be that steady presence for someone the world has already given up on?

01/03/2026

HAPPY NEW YEAR ✌️💜🎨
Thanks for your support of my small business!
It's been a VERY hard year of moving & tons of knee issues (still ongoing for almost 3yrs) but we're still here! Onwards & upwards in 2026! Moving forward with more creative growth for the community!
Regular hours on New Year's day: 11-8pm (we will close if the studio is empty at 6pm)

🎊 May 2026 be filled with laughter & beauty in unexpected moments, shoulders to lean on in hard times, and courage for the moments you don't think you can survive... because YOU CAN! 🎊

💜Jess💜
(& Erin & Bonnie)

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10/07/2025

Horses don’t just teach us about them—they teach us about ourselves.

Doing some straightness training with Tommy yesterday. He is very bent to the left naturally. Walking on a circle to the...
10/03/2025

Doing some straightness training with Tommy yesterday. He is very bent to the left naturally. Walking on a circle to the left, no problem. To the right…well he gets an A for effort but it takes time to lengthen the muscles on his left side and contract the muscles on his right side. We keep at it though. This will help him to become a more balanced horse overall. It will also help with the lameness issues he has by strengthening those weaker muscles. I love to see ST working for the horse! If you would like to know more reach out! I can show you the way!

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