06/25/2020
I hate to get on a rampage about aggressive dogs, but this year is especially bad. I cannot go one week without getting calls or a dog in my class that is aggressive. The sad part is that a very few acknowledge their dog has a problem, but most are oblivious to the fact. So many people say when their dog lunges at a person or another dog, that the dog is just wanting to play. Do your children do that? That is a sign of aggression and poor behavior.
Please understand that I used to be the only trainer that took aggressive dogs and tried to work it out. Now they are more aggressive and more of them. People are not socializing them or they take them to the "Dog Parks" and turn them lose. This does not teach them how to act correctly. You have to work in a stable environment, with stable dogs to teach the correct manners.
Aggression is a bad behavior. It is not an Alpha dog pushing others around. Alphas do not need to do that. We also are not teaching pack relations with other dogs or even in our supposed domestication. Most owners are trying to baby their dogs, because "they do not want to hurt their feelings" or "afraid my dog won't love me". It all starts with RESPECT, they need to respect their domain and pack members (humans or dogs).
Domesticating a dog is teaching them how to learn to live in a human society. Make our rules, boundaries and limitations. They do not know how to live with humans, until you show it to them and make a rule - Live by my rules, set a boundary, and make a limitation that you followed through. They honestly will love and enjoy their life more. Give it a try. The method of showing your dog what you want, set a rule with limitations and make it clear. They can or cannot do something.
When someone (trainer, veterinarian or neighbor) asks you, "is your dog aggressive" - be clearly honest. If you do not know ask a trainer or professional. Learn the signs. They are not just playing when they lunge and bark or growl. The tail wagging is not always an indication he is happy. I depends on how the tail is wagging and where it is located while it is wagging. The liability of owning an aggressive dog can be astronomically shocking. It can change your whole life, if you are not careful.
One more thing, MOST trainers that I have talked with, are not accepting aggressive dogs. The liability to them, their employees and others in the classes, is just to high. I do not work with aggressive and do not allow them in my classes. I cannot afford the liability to a human or another dog. Don't ask to bring an aggressive dog or evade the truth. You will be excused from the class.