09/17/2026
Your puppy knows the cue… but he’s still a baby.
Starting training at 8–10 weeks is absolutely not too early. In fact, it’s a wonderful time to start building communication, engagement, good habits, and a positive relationship with learning.
But there is something every puppy parent should remember: knowing a cue is not the same as being able to perform it reliably.
At three months, a puppy is still developing impulse control and learning how to disengage from exciting things in the environment. This becomes especially obvious with cues like Come. Imagine being a tiny puppy outside for the first time - every smell, sound, leaf, bird, person, and movement is fascinating! Asking him to stop exploring, turn away from all of that, come all the way to you, and stay engaged with you is a much bigger task than simply knowing what “Come” means.
That’s why the reward matters. The more distracting the environment, the more valuable the reinforcement may need to be. We want our puppy to learn that coming back to his person is one of the best things that can happen, even when the world around him is incredibly exciting.
And then there’s the mouthiness! 🦷 At around three months, puppies are approaching the teething period, and chewing, grabbing things, and struggling with cues like Leave It and Drop It can be completely normal. We are teaching impulse control while the puppy is also dealing with a very real biological need to chew.
Potty training is another area where patience is important. At three months, occasional accidents are still normal. Puppies become increasingly reliable over the following months, and many are dependable most of the time by around six months — but every puppy develops at their own pace.
At just three months old, puppy may already know an impressive number of cues. But he is still a baby. His job right now isn’t to be perfect.
His job is to learn how to learn.
And our job is to set him up for success, gradually increase distractions, reinforce the behaviors we want, and give his brain and body time to mature.
🐶 Training a puppy isn’t about expecting adult behavior from a baby. It’s about building the adult dog one small success at a time.