09/02/2026
Let’s go back ten plus years ago. I say plus because as you get older, time flies. Anyway, I was an up-and-coming trapper with little experience in the cat world. Quite a few successes in a short amount time, sure. Still green. I saw Marsha reach out for help on the feral page a couple times and never got any responses for help. She said she had a colony she fed and cared for but needed help trapping them. It was over an hour from me. I thought Meh, can’t be that hard. I like a challenge and helping them where no one else can or would is exactly what I signed up for. Marsha wasn’t in the best of health back then but somehow managed 80 cats outside and 30 kittens.
It wasn’t her fault. Rural areas always get drop offs. When no one can trap, they multiply daily it seems. I never judged, for Marsha the only alternative is to stop feeding them. Which is no alternative at all. We worked through two clinics. A month of trapping and got every one of them. The kittens were broken up into rescues over that month as well. I left there with colony managed and a good sense of why I signed up for this in the first place. I can help them.
Fast forward 8ish years later. Marsha always kept in touch. Her sister lived closer to the shelter than she did so she would send things for the shelter cats here and there. Maxine would drop them off after visiting her sister. Then Maxine and her husband Bruce saw this little kitten outside on its own by their house. Bruce was patient and the kitten came to him, even scared, it came to him. He and Maxine reached out to ask if I would see him and check him over for fleas and such so they could take him in. I agreed.
When Bruce brought him in, he struggled with a cane over the one step it takes to get into the shelter. He struggled because the kitten needed this care and they didn’t have anywhere else to go so quickly. He was doing the right thing. The kitten they named Thor, was pretty healthy. Probably dumped. Friendly. I gave him a flea treatment, wormed him, vaccinated, and sent them on their way. Just basic care. That was three years ago. I remembered watching Bruce struggle with that step and think how wonderful it is for me to have a place for people like this. For people to get their cats that they love just routine basic care that would otherwise have nowhere else to go. I thought no matter how much work it is, it’s worth it. I am truly blessed for the opportunity.
Bruce passed away this past Sunday. That truly was a man who loved cats. Rest in peace Bruce. You will truly be missed by many. I hope you know the impact your true heart had on the others around you. I felt it. ❤️
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