08/27/2026
**Train the dog in front of you. Not the dog you thought you adopted. š¾**
This is the final part of Rufus's story, and honestly, I think this may be the most important part.
When Rufus was young, his owner started training right away. That made sense. He was a high drive puppy who was already struggling with reactivity and some very big behaviors.
But the first approach didn't work for him.
It actually made things worse.
Eventually, his owner found a different trainer who helped her start somewhere else.
Not with more obedience.
With communication.
With engagement.
With trust.
With giving Rufus a reason to listen and helping him understand what his owner was asking.
And that foundation changed everything.
Because training isn't just about teaching a dog to sit, stay, or come when called.
It's about figuring out how to communicate with **this particular dog.**
What motivates them?
What overwhelms them?
What helps them feel safe?
What makes it easier for them to learn?
What does the environment look like?
What skills do they actually have right now?
And what do they need from us to be successful?
Rufus didn't need to become a different dog.
His owner needed to learn how to work with **Rufus.**
And that's the heart of individualized dog training.
Your dog doesn't have to be the dog you imagined bringing home.
They need you to meet the dog who's actually standing in front of you.
š¾ **Train the dog in front of you.**
The final part of Rufus's story is now on the Breezy Paws blog.
https://breezypawsllc.com/individualized-dog-training/