06/15/2026
Another informational banger from our friends at Copilot Dog Training!
When we learn dogs aren’t doing well in our group setting and we end our working relationship, we aren’t saying that dog is bad.
We are trying to support their singular needs of which we cannot meet in our always at least 2 resident dogs home.
Not every dogs want to be friends with all dogs, even if they may cohabitate/tolerate our group setting.
Our job is to care for your pets, and sometimes caring means having to share hard “finds” and helping you meet their needs in other ways.
As humans, we often place a lot of value on sociability. We celebrate the dog who loves every dog at daycare, wants to greet everyone on walks, and happily joins every playgroup.
And honestly, it makes sense. A dog who’s comfortable around everyone can make life feel a little easier—especially in busy cities where dogs regularly share sidewalks, elevators, patios, and other tight spaces.
But that’s a very human perspective.
The reality is that dogs exist on a sociability spectrum, and most fall somewhere in the middle. Many dogs are tolerant of other dogs without actively seeking interaction. Others are selective and prefer a small circle of familiar friends.
And that’s okay!
A dog doesn’t need to love every dog they meet to be happy, successful, or well-adjusted.
Just as importantly, sociability isn’t fixed. A dog’s comfort level around other dogs can shift throughout their life due to age, maturity, health, learning history, and experiences.
Rather than asking, “How can I make my dog more social?” a better question is often:
“How can I help my dog feel comfortable, safe, and successful around other dogs?”
For some dogs, that may mean playdates and group adventures. For others, it may mean calmly sharing space, going for parallel walks, or simply ignoring other dogs altogether.
The goal isn’t to create a social butterfly—it’s to understand the dog in front of you 🧡