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Bar M Custom Tack Creating Cowboy and Fashion hats to tell your story ✨ Building Handmade Tack with Grit and Grace 🌵

14/10/2026

They just spread the pain out over time.

First the rope goes fluffy.
Then it stretches.
Then the knots slip.
Then suddenly your “bargain” halter is communicating like two tin cans connected with string.

So you buy another one.
And another one.
And another one.

Meanwhile the horse is getting duller, the signals are getting muddier, and you’re out there wondering why everything feels harder than it should.

A good halter isn’t expensive because it’s fancy.
It’s expensive because it works.

Clear feel.
Consistent pressure.
No stretch.
No rot.
No fighting your gear while you’re trying to work your horse.

At Bar M, I build halters for real use.
Sweat. Dust. Pullers. Leaners. Spicy horses with opinions.

The kind that test cheap gear before breakfast.

Buy once.
Communicate properly.
Move on with your life.

Because “cheap” gets very expensive when you have to keep replacing it.

Comment HOOK or HORSEMANSHIP and I’ll help you choose the right setup for your horse.

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14/10/2026

A cowboy hat isn’t just something you put on your head.

It changes the way you stand.

The way you carry yourself.

The way you feel.

And that’s why I hate seeing people spend hundreds of dollars on a hat that never really suited them in the first place.

The best part of my job isn’t making hats.

It’s watching someone look in the mirror and go…

“Yep… that’s the one.”

That little smile gets me every single time.

Have you ever bought something that made you feel ten feet tall?

If you enjoy learning what actually goes into a quality hat, you’ll probably enjoy hanging around here.

Come and prove me wrong. I’ll bring the steamer. You bring that head of yours. Tag a mate whose hat could do with a bit ...
12/10/2026

Come and prove me wrong. I’ll bring the steamer. You bring that head of yours. Tag a mate whose hat could do with a bit of professional intervention.

A bad haircut grows out. A badly shaped cowboy hat will keep doing you dirty until someone fixes it.And believe me, I’ve...
10/10/2026

A bad haircut grows out. A badly shaped cowboy hat will keep doing you dirty until someone fixes it.

And believe me, I’ve seen some shockers.

One of my favourite things about shaping hats is watching someone go from “I don’t think I suit cowboy hats” to refusing to take the bloody thing off. Sometimes all it takes is a little tweak to the brim or a different crown shape.

I’ll be at Equifest in Hamilton, October 16–18, so come and see me. You don’t need to know a cattleman from a brick crease. We’ll figure out what suits you together.

Tag your mate who’s convinced they don’t have a cowboy hat face.

10/10/2026

I hear it all the time, usually said a bit quieter than everything else.

Someone will try a hat on, look in the mirror, and then almost apologise for it.
“My face just doesn’t suit hats.”
“I’ve got a weird head.”
“I just can’t pull them off.”

And every time, I’m standing there thinking the same thing…
it’s not you.

What’s actually happening is you’ve been trying on shapes that were never designed for your proportions in the first place.
A crown that’s a little too tall for your face length.
A brim that’s a little too narrow for your shoulders.
Lines that are too sharp when your features are softer… or too soft when you need structure.

So the hat sits wrong.
It looks off.
It feels uncomfortable.

And instead of questioning the shape, you start questioning yourself.

But then we change it.

Maybe we lower the crown slightly, soften the lines, widen the brim just enough to balance everything out.
And suddenly… there it is.

Same face.
Same person.
Completely different result.

You can actually see it happen — the moment they look back at themselves and realise it was never about “not suiting hats.”
It was about finding the one that suits them.

Because the right shape doesn’t fight your features.
It frames them.

And once you see that… you can’t unsee it.

Tell me what shape you’ve been wearing, and I’ll let you know if it’s actually working for you.

Or come and see me at Equifest 16-18 October

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The biggest mistake I see people make?They shop by the name on the sweatband instead of what’s actually in the hat.Good ...
01/08/2026

The biggest mistake I see people make?

They shop by the name on the sweatband instead of what’s actually in the hat.

Good marketing has convinced a lot of people that certain brands automatically mean quality. Sometimes they do… sometimes they don’t.

The truth is, the felt, the fit and how the hat is made matter far more than the logo.

That’s why I spend so much time educating people before they ever buy from me. If you end up with the right hat—even if it’s not from Bar M—I still think that’s a win.

A good cowboy hat should become part of your story. It should be there for the long days, the special occasions, the adventures, and everything in between.

If you’re new to hats, don’t stress about knowing all the terminology. We all start somewhere.

Have a flick through the carousel, and if you’ve got questions, ask away.

What’s one thing you’ve always wondered about cowboy hats? 🤠

The easy option would have been to quietly update the website and hope nobody noticed.Instead, I wanted to show you exac...
08/07/2026

The easy option would have been to quietly update the website and hope nobody noticed.

Instead, I wanted to show you exactly what’s happening.

The biggest driver isn’t me.

It’s the global demand for beaver fur.

For years, premium beaver fur has been used almost exclusively for high-end hats because it’s ridiculously durable, naturally water resistant and can be reshaped over and over again while still feeling soft in your hands.

Now another industry has discovered those exact same qualities.

Demand has exploded.

More people want the same raw material.

The trappers are paid more.

The companies processing the fur pay more.

The factories making the hat bodies pay more.

The warehouses supplying makers like me pay more.

Then I buy those hat bodies in US dollars… while our dollar keeps doing its own thing.

It creates a ripple effect all the way through the supply chain.

I could choose cheaper materials.

I could cut corners.

I could stop fitting every hat to your head and shaping every brim by hand.

But that’s not why I started Bar M.

I’d rather make fewer hats than compromise on quality.

So from 20 July, my custom beaver fur hats will increase in price.

If you’ve been sitting on the fence, every order placed before 11:59 pm NZST on 19 July will still be honoured at the current pricing.

And finally…

Thank you.

Every order, every comment, every share and every recommendation helps keep a small New Zealand business doing what it loves.

It genuinely means more than you probably realise.

Comment “BEAVER” and I’ll send you the full range of custom beaver fur hats before the price change
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Custom cowboy hats • Beaver fur hats • Custom hats NZ

09/06/2026

You know that hat you’ve always dreamed about? Yeah… this is the moment people realise they can actually have it.

Look at their faces.

Nobody is reacting to “just a hat.”

They’re reacting to THE hat.

The one that’s fitted to their actual head so they’re not walking around with red lines across their forehead and a headache by lunchtime.

The one that’s shaped to suit THEIR face instead of whatever shape happened to be popular on a factory line.

The one that makes them look in the mirror and go:

“Well sh*t…”

And that’s where the fun starts.

Because every single hat is shaped differently.

A little more roll here.
A little more width there.
Drop the brim.
Lift the brim.

All done with steam, my hands, and years of figuring out what works by feel.

No templates.
No cookie-cutter hats.
No “that’ll do.”

Just shaping until the hat and the person finally match.

And let’s not ignore the beaver in the room…

Bar M is the only place in New Zealand offering custom cowboy hats with genuine beaver blends all the way through to 100% beaver.

The good stuff.

The stuff that makes old cowboys weirdly emotional about hats.

Honestly, this is my favourite part of Fieldays.

Not selling hats.

Watching someone find THEIR hat.

The one they’ve been imagining for years without even knowing it.

📍 Fieldays
📍 Site RLL12

Come try one on.

Fair warning though…

You might leave looking significantly cooler than when you arrived 🤠

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It started in cow camp at the Gang Ranch in British Columbia.A million-acre ranch. No cell service. The middle of nowher...
07/06/2026

It started in cow camp at the Gang Ranch in British Columbia.

A million-acre ranch. No cell service. The middle of nowhere. Just a bunch of cowboys, horses, cattle, and me learning to braid rope in the evenings after work.

Back then, Bar M wasn’t a business. It wasn’t even really an idea. It was just something I enjoyed doing.

Fast forward a few years and somehow that little hobby has grown into a brand that people recognise across New Zealand and around the world. These days people stop me and ask, “Are you the Bar M lady?” or “You’re the hat lady, right?”

To be honest, I never imagined Bar M would become what it has. And I certainly never imagined I’d be here as the incredibly proud winner of the New Zealand Rural Women Young Businesswoman Award.

A few years ago at Equifest, a lady stopped by my stand and told me about a business idea she had. We chatted for a while and I remember telling her she just needed to back herself and give it a crack.

Three days later she came back to find me. She thanked me and said it was the push she needed.

That conversation has stuck with me because backing yourself is hard.

There have been countless moments where I’ve had absolutely no idea how I was going to make something work. Times where the numbers didn’t make sense. Times where the next step wasn’t obvious. Times where giving up would have been easier.

But I backed myself anyway.

And here we are.

Next week, Bar M turns six years old. Six years of learning, failing, figuring it out, trying again, and building something I’m incredibly proud of.

Winning this award isn’t just for me. It’s for every rural woman in New Zealand and beyond who is thinking about taking the first step.

The one sitting on an idea. The one wondering if she’s good enough. The one waiting until she feels ready.

Back yourself.

The best things I’ve ever done started with absolutely no guarantees.

Forever grateful. Thank you thank you thank you NZI.

With Grit & Grace,

Millie 🤠

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