31/08/2026
What was it like learning your first dance as blind bride? 🦮👩🏻🦯
Before our wedding my husband and I learned how to do a simple waltz for our first dance. We had three lessons in total, and this video shows our final practice before the big day. We are both complete beginners so please be kind!
As a legally blind person with a severely restricted visual field, I relied heavily on learning the steps through movement and detailed descriptions. I do have a small pinhole of sight (20°), so was able to observe one body part at a time when our instructor was demonstrating. For example, first I studied her feet, and next time I looked at what her arms were doing. I cannot see the full body all in one go.
My husband and I really enjoyed taking part in the lessons and it became a very special part of our Wedding. 💍
You might also be able to spot Luna, my young Guide & Medical Alert Dog in Training, lying calmly on her blanket in the background. It was a fantastic opportunity for her to practice settling at a distance from me and maintaining her ‘stay’ for an extended period of time. Each lesson was an hour long and she did a wonderful job!
For the music we chose Mike Oldfield’s Tubular Bells II, reimagined as a piano solo by Robin A.Smith. Ed and I heard Robin play live during the Tubular Bells 50th anniversary tour and searched for more of his work online. We came across this beautiful piano cover of Tubular Bells II on YouTube, and knew immediately that it would be our wedding song.