30/08/2026
Save this for when fear stops you moving forward...
Earlier this week, I was getting ready to take Shelby out, he's young and up for absolutely anything being a young WCS and Zara gets asked separately with the option to say no. Which isn't uncommon for her to opt out of a walk, she's my "can do" dog, where most of the time she half heartedly opts in. But not this particular day. I didn't even need to ask, she told me she was going and was genuinely excited. So I took both dogs, which is mildly inconveniencing because I then have to tailor the place to suit her needs. Which means somewhere with as little footfall as possible.
Our usual route is closed currently but I thought I'd go and check out if the road had been sorted, which it wasnt.
There was a walk nearby that worked for distance but it was narrow, not much room to pass anyone if we did meet a dog, and normally that's not a walk I'd choose for her, I'd rather go further and get the space right than risk one with no way out. But I thought f*ck it, put your big girl pants on and do it. This is what we prepared for, this is why she is muzzle trained!
We weren't winging it, we've put the work in, so instead of hoping for the best I was trusting what we'd already built. Thankfully, we didn't see another dog in the end, but even if we had, we were prepared for it.
Sometimes fear's right, it's telling you the setup's wrong and you need to listen to it. This was different, this was fear about something we'd actually put the work into and that's not the same thing at all. That fear, I want you to say, "Jen would tell me to put my big girl pants on and do this, I probably won't die".
Just so we're clear, this isn't me saying go try a narrow walk with your reactive dog because it worked out for us. Please don't, not without the groundwork first. Muzzle training and distance work got us here, not luck...
Are you struggling with your own dog's reactivity? DM me today.
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