28/05/2026
Have you ever wondered if your bridle is right for your horse?
This is Blaze and he is ridden bitless, in a side pull bridle. We typically use the FRA bridle and I attach my own rope clip on reins.
Last night though, I made a stupid error of just letting him graze whilst I went to shut a gate and his reins slipped forward and he stood on the attachment, pulled back and the side pull ring snapped off. Now I’m not mad because I’m glad it snapped and he didn’t pull his face off but it left me a little stuck!
I wandered off and found my older thoroughbred Mak’s old bridle. It was a rope bridle with a padded nose and which she really loved. The only difference? The reins attach under the chin not on the sides of the face.
I hopped on him, we had a little walk around to test the waters and I quickly learnt, he had absolutely no idea what I was asking him to do. He was wiggling around all over the place, throwing his bum out, head high in the air and had 0 bend… interesting. For some reason this wasn’t enough for me and I asked for a little trot - immediate NO! Broncing.
I got off and fetched his Lemieux head collar. Now I knew we were going to have the issue of brakes as he is quite strong in a fabric head collar (it’s something we are working on), but I thought it’s the closest thing to his side pull.
Hopped back on, we had immediate relaxation and he knew what I was asking, but the head collar kept riding up his face- which he did not like! We had our normal walk back, but trot was very VERY forward. Just trying to canter at any point he could and no brakes. But this was weird to me - because I’ve been trying to get this horse to canter for the past 9 months? And he is just offering it straight away. What is the difference? Is it restriction? Or is it lack of knowledge and he’s doing what he thinks best? Either way I wasn’t sticking around to find out.
We then stood for 20 minutes on a graze as I was out of ideas and didn’t feel like being thrown off 🤷♀️🙈
But it’s an interesting thing to consider. The reason he isn’t bitted is because 1. He hates the bit, 2. His mouth is tiny (nearly parrot mouthed) and 3. I don’t need him to be bitted, he is much more relaxed in his side pull.
I also had a client ride her usually bitted horse bitless (with consent) to see if mechanically it made any difference. Her immediate response was that he felt better, and from my perspective he looked relaxed but he looked like a fish out of water and had no idea of how to deal with that responsibility.
I’m not saying horses should be tried bitless , I’m not. But it might be worth considering playing around with different bridle styles to make sure you have the most freeing and correct style you can! Sometimes off the shelf just isn’t right.
You can ask a bridle fitter to come and see your horse to make sure you have the right sizes for them, as sometimes (and like mine) you can get a cob nose size with a full head and pony cheek pieces. And that would mean buying 3 off the shelf bridles and dissecting them which isn’t viable. Or you can buy the parts separately but you have to know what you’re doing. I’d find it easier to just ask a professional ☺️