09/08/2026
Let’s decode the conversation happening between these two dogs!
First off, what do I see purely just from observing their body language?
Gracie - Beige dog
- Ears held forward
- Tail held high
- Raised hackles
- Forward weighted body posture
- Head-on stare / intense eye contact
Gracie when Bonnie arrives on the scene
- Lip lick
- Raise of one front paw
- Very quick, slight lip curl / baring of teeth
- High head position
- Puffed chest
- Shoulder to shoulder stance
- Avoids eye contact initially
Bonnie - Black dog
- Comes in very hot / fast
- Ears held forward initially and then pin back once dogs are shoulder - shoulder
- Very high & stiff tail
- High head
- Puffed chest
- Straight in for head on / shoulder - shoulder stance
- Hackles raised
- Growls
- Curves away but straight back to making eye contact
Knowing these dogs and their relationships well - what does this tell me?
Gracie is generally speaking very good with other dogs, but was startled by Teddy (white dog) coming in, so she has some threatening body language to greet him, with the stare, high tail, hackles etc.
Bonnie loves Teddy and went in with quite a lot of intent to displace / calm Gracie down (a bit too much, absolutely, but she’s learning!) as she saw her as a threat to Teddy in this situation. There may have also been an element of competition in there for Bonnie as Teddy is male, and Gracie is female.
Gracie stands her ground as Bonnie comes in, with that high posture and adding in a slight lip curl, but also offers some appeasement signs with the paw raise and avoidance of eye contact.
Bonnie growls as she sees the lip curl, but then decides to curve away in the opposite direction, diffusing the tension, whilst still keeping an eye on Gracie!
You can see they both relax very quickly as they hear me in the garden, their tails drop and loosen up, their ears soften, their bodies lower slightly.
They were absolutely fine with one another, as usual, after this conversation they had.