29/09/2026
Helping Your Reactive Dog 🐾
I get a lot of enquiries from people looking for help with reactivity, and one of the most common questions is:
“Can my reactive dog join your class?”
The honest answer is often no not initially.
If your dog reacts to their environment, whether that's other dogs, people, noises or unfamiliar situations, simply putting them into a class environment isn't going to make the problem disappear.
In fact, if you're struggling to walk past one dog or one person, expecting your dog to suddenly cope with a room full of dogs, people and distractions while also learning new behaviours is asking far too much.
Let's talk about classes.
Classes aren't for every dog.
Asking a reactive dog to sit, down or stay isn't going to change how they feel about the thing that is worrying them. You can have a dog that knows every obedience cue perfectly and still have a dog who is frightened, overwhelmed or anxious in certain situations.
Personally, I don't use the word “obedience.” To me, it can sound as though we're demanding behaviours from our dogs. I much prefer thinking about working as a team.
If your dog is responsive to your cues, it doesn't mean they will give you the same response in every situation.
We've all heard: “But they do it at home!”
Of course they do. Home is familiar, predictable and comfortable.
Take that same dog somewhere unfamiliar, add another dog, a person, noise or something that worries them, and suddenly what they know can go completely out of the window.
Does that mean you should demand the behaviour?
Absolutely not.
Give them the time they need to process what's happening.
That's exactly the approach I believe we should take with reactive dogs.
If a dog is scared or overwhelmed, asking them to perform basic behaviours while they're struggling to cope with their environment can simply be too much.
Before we worry about sit, down or stay, we need to understand why the dog is reacting, what they're communicating, what their triggers are, and how we can help them feel safer.
And most importantly, we need to stay calm.
If you panic when your dog reacts, you're adding even more stress to an already difficult situation. Your dog needs you to be their calm, safe person — not another source of anxiety.
Reactivity isn't about having a badly behaved dog that needs more obedience.
It's about understanding the dog in front of you, understanding what they're telling you, and learning how to work together. ❤️🐾
Angela Holt Tel: 696 42 67 83
Ben Dog Training Costa Blanca