10/16/2026
✨APPROPRIATE PLAY️✨️
Khan & Chloe having some playtime together 💕
Chloe is getting better at self regulating - pausing play or taking breaks when needed.
Khan reads her pretty well and displays avoidance or pauses play, letting Chloe know that he needs a break. If she becomes over-stimulated these signals can sometimes get ignored! He rarely 'corrects' her inappropriate play (grabbing his ankles, which is not polite and I will interrupt this kind of inappropriate play) when clearly Khan is not enjoying it!
Playtimes should be fun for BOTH dogs involved.
✨️POLITE PLAY✨️
👍 You should see both dogs taking turns/switching roles - one is the chasee, the other the chaser! Then they switch.
👍 The same applies if a dog flops over on the ground.
👍 You never want to see bullying type behaviours; trapping, pinning, grabbing & pulling out fur, rough biting, standing over a dog (especially growling - different to a play growl!). Or dogs looking serious or freezing with tense body posture or a high erect tail! Over arousal or over stimulation.
👍 BOTH dogs should look happy and relaxed - soft eyes, open mouths - no tension in the face, body, tail.
👍 Size matters! Some large breeds can become triggered (predatory) by small breeds running & being excited - be extra vigilant! (Often okay if they're bonded).
👍 Introduce play breaks, especially if you see rough play, one dog trying to get away or trying to hide or looking stressed! This avoids stress build up, overly rough play; over-stimulation/over excitement/arousal.
👍 Constant rough play will eventually lead to aggression!
👍 If I see a dog needs a play break and they're being ignored by their playmate, I'm going to step in to offer them relief.
👍 If your dog comes into you or stands behind you during playtimes, they're asking for your help!
👍 Dogs experience stress during play; cortisol (stress hormone), adrenaline & noradrenaline are released - play breaks help keep stress levels low.