05/11/2026
Most dogs love affection, but not every touch feels the same to them.
Many dogs are happiest with a scratch on the chest, the side of the neck, or the shoulders. Reaching over the top of the head, especially from a stranger, can feel more like a looming hand than a friendly greeting.
Paws, legs, tails, and bellies are more personal. Some dogs welcome a belly rub, while others roll over simply to show they mean no harm.
A simple way to check is the "pet and pause" test. Pet for a few seconds, then stop. If your dog leans in, nudges your hand, or moves closer, that's a yes. If they move away, shake off, or turn their head, they've had enough for now.
Kids especially benefit from learning this. It teaches them to ask the dog, not just the adult.